About
About Kirk Sims,                 Â
The Husband Strategist™
"I simply want to change the world."Â "I want to turn the hearts of husbands back to their wives, and the hearts of wives back to their husbands."Â "In the age of AI and superficial online relationships, count on the authentic love in your marriage becoming your most valuable asset!"
As The Husband Strategist™, I believe that extraordinary success in life should not come at the cost of the most intimate relationship in your life—your marriage. My mission is to empower highly successful, high net-worth men like you to master the dynamics of your marriage with the same confidence, precision, and strategy you apply to your career or business.
I help men move from struggling to understand their wives, marital crises, or the brink of divorce—often causing stress in the home, disengagement, or distractions at work—to leveraging their already-proven success skills through a revolutionary leadership strategy. This approach helps you confidently and privately achieve satisfaction, renewed love, restored friendship, and joyful sex—all without feeling lost, confused, or overwhelmed when challenges arise.
The result? A stable, peaceful, and mature marriage that powerfully impacts your family legacy and strengthens your contribution to the world.
How I Got Here
I began searching for principles to build a strong marriage in September 1987.
At 23 years old and two months into my marriage to Ollie—my beautiful bride—I was determined to make our union thrive. I didn’t want to merely avoid divorce or become a statistic. I wanted an excellent marriage.
Yet, with no model to follow and no clue where to start, I threw myself into the search for answers.
Over the years, I devoured knowledge from modern and ancient history, psychology, major philosophies, comparative religions, social classics, and over 1500 biographies, searching for the keys to marital success.
In 1993, my journey shifted from personal discovery to helping others. At a Promise Keepers conference with 30,000 men at Texas Stadium, I met my first high net-worth marriage coaching client, David (name changed), a professional baseball player for the Pittsburgh Pirates.
After four months of tele-coaching, he and his wife began to enjoy a stronger marriage and continued to build a lasting legacy together. I carried this passion into graduate school at Regent University’s Business School, where I discovered the power of leadership, management, and organizational behavior principles.
While I was mastering these skills academically, I integrated them into my marriage and coaching, helping university employees and stressed-out graduate and law students navigate their relationships alongside their professional pressures.
Fast forward 20 years, I was a Director at an acute care hospital, planning to climb further in healthcare leadership. Despite my corporate success, I was still being sought out for marriage coaching by directors, physicians, and executives.
But when healthcare’s shifting landscape limited my career growth, I was encouraged by those close to me to fully embrace what I had been doing one-on-one for decades.
It was time to bring The OUTBRĀV™ Leadership Strategy to life—to deliver these life-changing principles to highly successful men like you in a more impactful, structured, and scalable way.
My Values
These are the guiding principles that shape my approach to helping high-achieving men create thriving, lasting marriages.
Commitment
Marriage is a sacred vow, not a temporary arrangement.
Leadership
Great marriages, like great organizations, thrive under wise, collaborative, and strategic leaders.
Empowerment
Success in marriage is not reserved for the lucky—it’s a strategy that can be learned and mastered.
Legacy
A thriving marriage doesn’t just change your world; it changes the world of those who watch you and those who come after you.
My Expertise and Experience
With over 38 years of marriage to my incredible wife, Ollie, and decades of research, application, and coaching I’ve developed a revolutionary framework that integrates:
- Leadership and organizational principles for relational success.
- A strategy tailored for high-performing men with demanding careers.
- A deep understanding of the challenges and pressures you face as a highly successful individual.
Whether you’re seeking to rekindle love, restore trust, or navigate complex marital challenges, I’m here to guide you with the clarity, confidence, and discretion you deserve.
5 Big Mistakes
Highly Successful Men, High Net-Worth Men Make That Sabotage Their Marriages
This concise eBook equips high-net-worth men with a few actionable steps to begin to rebuild trust, foster intimacy, and create a partnership that strengthens both your home and your legacy.
- The five mistakes that silently sabotage marriages and how to identify them.
- Practical steps to rebuild trust, intimacy, and mutual respect.
- Leadership skills to create clarity, confidence, and connection at home.
- How to cultivate a peaceful home environment without sacrificing professional excellence.
- Insight to align your relationship with your legacy and values.
Download your free copy now!
       When You're Ready              Let’s Work Together
Your success in life deserves to be mirrored in your marriage.  With The OUTBRĀV™ Leadership Strategy, I’ll help you leverage your strengths to create the thriving marriage you’ve always envisioned. Together, we’ll make your marriage—and your legacy—a powerful testament to the kind of man you are.
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